One of the biggest questions I have held without answer for a long time has been, "Why is conflict necessary, and why do people seem to thrive on creating these dramas and conflicts in their life?" We all have experienced this irrational behavior both unto us and by us. And we love it! Think about it. Without drama and conflict our lives would be pretty boring, no wars, no divorce, no Jerry Springer. Hey wait, that actually sounds like a good thing, and indeed it would be. However, there are always unseen consequences. Let's look at the root of what causes these conflicts to begin with.
Every great conflict begins with someone feeling that they have been wronged in some way. This can take many forms and ranges from one feeling a lack of respect to having a loved one killed. These ego-created conflicts can last for generations as neither side will ever admit that they were wrong and in some way can justify their actions. The ego will never admit that it is in the wrong. That is part of its function. The ego is the part of our mind that separates us from each other by way of judgments. It's the part of us that says, "I am this, but I am not that." Ego likes definitions and relies on others to confirm these. This is why we have clicks, clubs, churches, and countries. We love to be defined. Why is this? Why is it necessary for us to see ourselves as separate from one another, and why must we condemn those we find in opposition to what we have defined ourselves as? Well, here's my theory.
Einstein proved that the physical reality that we all know is one of relativity. If you have a hard time understanding this one, think of it this way. In order to have the concept of temperature you must not only know what heat is but what cold is as well. If all there was was white, we would have no concept of black or any of the gradations in-between. So if we follow this logic we realize that far cannot exist without near and good can not exist without bad. This is the great polarity of our universe and is present in almost every aspect of it. From the magnetic poles, to gender, to matter itself. (Oh yeah, scientists recently proved that such a thing as anti-matter does exist.) So if this is the nature of reality how could there ever be world peace? We just established the fact that in order for us to know what peace is we must also know what war is. So how could a level of global peace ever be achieved within the current paradigm of reality that we currently exist within? It can't! But what if the paradigm changed?
Changing the paradigm of our entire species would require one of two things. (Or both) The first would be a global cataclysm. Something on the order of a meteor strike or severe climate change. This would force many to realize that what we have here is precious and fragile and should be handled with care and love. The sense of global community would be strengthened only after emerging from such an event, as preceding and during a so called Armageddon the world would be in absolute chaos and panic. Those who are unable to coexist with others in a civil manner would find themselves ostracized from the new close-knit communities and will either starve to death or find the business end of a shotgun. This would truly be a time of chaos and pain. However, true growth usually requires pain, and as we emerged from such an event, a renewed spirit of connection and peace would begin to take hold as man reconciled his differences in light of the fact that we are all stuck on this big rock together and need to learn how to get along. This has happened before. It will happen again.
The second option for a global paradigm shift is one of less gloom and doom and the one I would personally like to see. Are you ready for this one... Extra Terrestrials! Imagine if they decided to show up one day. What would our reaction be? Naturally, there would be those of us who out of fear would immediately try shooting them down. However, if a species has evolved to the point of interplanetary travel, don't you think their consciousness has evolved as well? This is the point I had a hard time answering. My first thoughts were of our own culture and the fact that as an American I am living on land that was conquered by a technologically advanced race, and Nazi Germany was the technologically superior country until the end of WWII. So what would make me believe that if a race of beings from another planet have developed the technology to travel the stars why would they not be malevolent in character? Because we're talking about a species that have had over a million years to evolve. Let's look at our own time-line for a minute. We have only 6,000 years of recorded history. This is a blink of an eye in cosmic terms as our planet is believed to be billions of years old and our species is actually a relatively new one at only 200,000 years. Our current boom in technology is only 200 years old and one can only imagine what we'll come up with in the future if we can manage not to blow ourselves up. Man has become much more civilized than his predecessors though, and although corruption and plunder still plague our politics and murder and rape still plague our streets, it's not as bad as it once was. We do still act more like parasites than symbiotic creatures, but we are gradually improving. We are slowly evolving, and each succeeding generation seems to slowly be grasping the concepts of coexistence and unity. We are however at a fork in the road in our time-line, and the direction we take will depend on the state of our collective consciousness. This is why I believe that the introduction into the Universal community would help us to realize that we will not only identify ourselves as Americans, Mexicans, Asians, etc, but as Humans and as Earthlings (or Earthians, which I prefer). Think about it. What if you could actually stand face to face with a being from a planet halfway across our galaxy. How would that change your perception of reality? Would you view your place in the universe differently? Now imagine everyone elevating their concepts of existence to a higher level. This would truly spark another age of enlightenment! The technology exchange alone would be incredibly powerful. Imagine finally gaining access to free energy and gravitational amplification. This is the holy-grail of transportation and energy production. This would eliminate several of the issues and perils man-kind faces today. And although a convenient visit from ET would be nice, I fear we are going to be responsible for cleaning up our own mess. Nature has a thing for learning the hard way. Survival of the fittest exists because it works. If we are to survive we must become more fit, mentally, physically, and especially spiritually. No alien is ever gonna ask us to come out and play if we can't figure out how to get along amongst ourselves.
So begin to affect the change you want to see. Practice random acts of kindness. Hold the door for one another. Help when you can and thankfully accept help when it is given. Don't get upset if you don't get your way! Grow Up! We're an advanced species and we need to start acting like it!








Bob Proctor is an author, lecturer, counselor, business consultant, entrepreneur, and teacher preaching the gospel of positive thinking, self-motivation and maximizing human potential. In that endeavor, he follows in the footsteps of such motivational giants as Napoleon Hill, Earl Nightingale and Wallace D. Wattles.